Not Anti Female At All: Buhari Said "My Wife" not "Our wives"

We should not make any issue out of what President Buhari said about his wife, it was to his wife and not to all women. It was a response to a specific question about his wife, and he said "my wife", he didn't talk about a place for all women in the society.

Mrs Aisha Buhari over reacted and made a big mistake by not making a befitting talk about her husband, and the husband responded the way he feels about the situation at that particular moment; then there shouldn't be any ache at all. We should always remember when we throw a stone, the one will throw it at might decide to throw an arrow back...human nature.

Well, truly Aisha spoke her mind and shows that she's concerned with the situation in the country, yes we do appreciate that, but diplomacy must be applied and not play into the hands of the ones that are not in favour of her husband...it seems Aisha forgot that she's in a political arena and not a drama class.

It's not "anti female" like some people are trying to turn it to be, some are trying to instigate some women to make a big issue out of this, well... each individual should think deep and look at the situation and the circumstances carefully without prejudice. This could be anti-Aisha, also might not be anti Aisha, but it's a way of responding to a woman that feels she owns it all and talks with too much unnecessary confidence. She should remember that people voted and campaigned for Buhari on his personal merits. Obviously as a wife she must have contributed so much to his success, anyway any reasonable woman would, because the benefit of being a First Lady is great. But hey! the main "King Maker" made the "winning" possible and of course a few others.

Well it is reported that Reuben Abati said that, there are evil influences and forces in Aso Rock, "Sometimes, they wonder if something has not gone wrong with the thinking process at the highest level of the country. I have heard people insist that there is some form of witchcraft at work in the country's seat of government". 

The words by Abati got me thinking and I can't imagine how and why any woman for that matter will say things against her husband especially when the husband is far away, on a mission in another country. Mrs Buhari should take a few lessons from Hillary Clinton. Hillary stood by her husband even when she knew he was lying so badly, that's what matrimony and togetherness is all about. I'm sure Hillary didn't take it cool with Bill behind the scene, but she came out strong each time to defend and support her husband for the world to see and know that they are very strong together as a family even in the middle of the storm.

As much as we want to be respected as a woman and wife, we should learn how to respect and support our husbands even at the toughest moments; this doesn't mean we won't do the job of talking to them and rebuke them privately when necessary, but not publicly, diplomacy must be applied and respect must be shown.

Maybe Aisha is trying to be in the good books of some people, yes, I can understand, but there are ways of going about it. 

Obviously any good woman will belong to her husband kitchen, living room and the other room... food, fun, and sex make all go well.

I 'guess' Mrs Buhari is happy where she is; at President Buhari's kitchen, living room and the other room, so why too much noise...Any good woman will love to belong to her husband's kitchen, living room and the other room. Food, fun, and sex are all recipes for healthy living.