We Write a Script and Act The Play All Alone

We write a script and act the play all alone until we share our feelings with the one that we have crush on; when the person accepts it, then he/she joins in the play.

At times the word "crush" is being wrongly used; in some cases we could be having a 'passing infatuation' with someone that we simply like, then we get it wrong by taking it for a crush. We must understand that, there are different types of crushes which might be confusing to a lot of people. My categories of crushes below:

The Adulation Crush comes on when you are passionate about a person especially public figure who has done something of great inspiration; hence you have intense feelings about that person and his/her achievements; these feelings might be mistaken for romantic feelings because is very strong, but as soon as you can stand on equal ground with this person the crush-like feelings wears off. 

The Amiable Crush is just a desire to be around a friend that has become a close friend; not all feelings are romantic.

The Passing Crush this is typical human nature of  "loving" and "wanting" more; even when you are in a super fantastic relationship, the tendency is still there to be attracted to someone else other than your spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, fiance/fiancee. The new person is fresh and excellently exciting but doesn't mean you will leave your partner for this crush.

The Amorous Crush, this means you really want to be with this person in more than just a friendly way, you want more than just the ordinary thing, you desire another level higher, a step up for intimacy in all.

Crushes could be exiting with "intoxicating" emotions and sweet burning desires which are very much perfect, but relationships are not perfect, you should be able to shoulder the Whole Package of a relationship which contains the sweet times and the sour times.