Forgiving doesn't mean relationship will or should continue, it is better in one's own interest to say goodbye when the essence of healthy relationship is missing.
When love is not completely stable, confidence and trust are gone; secrets seem not kept and promises are broken... Then nothing is left to celebrate as lovers in a relationship.
You might want to stay and say you will try, but remember day in, day out TIME is moving fast and tomorrow is not promised. A good healthy friendship, with good wishes for one another might aswell do the magic.
Forgiveness gives inner peace and hope for better tomorrow, it's always a good thing to do, but don't get stuck in a relationship that does not fully respect you and doesn't add value to your being the way it should be. It should be a give and take, balanced and motivating one; if these are missing, then... You need to move on, continue the journey without low spirit, without regrets. Know that there's someone out there to celebrate you.
We live just once and the living must be done with peace of mind and honour.
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