Monday 18 April 2016

They Say Women Talk A Lot



It's said that women utter more words per day than men, women speak about three times more than an average man. Recently they say scientists found the key to explaining why women talk more than men. The study suggests that women's brains produce higher level of protein (Fox P2) known as 'language protein' than that of men.

For me, I guess men might have added more to women talkativeness due to their inability to communicate effectively, especially in personal relationships. Most women are peace loving, obedient respectful, and very submissive; the fact is they need good and clear explanations for each thing, so as to be sure of each situation around them and to take control of what need to be done. 

Men that don't want long drama will be straightforward and answer a simple question there and then; this will avoid headache; sure a good woman won't want to torment her man with unnecessary discussions.

You can imagine this drama that was prolonged by a man:

Woman: Babe, I will hang your picture at the office reception wall.

Man: Alright, babe. Thanks.

Two days after.

Woman: Darling, I have placed your picture there, it's so nice, you will like it when you see it, beautifully done.

Man: Which picture?

Woman; Hmmmm...I told you about it babe, remember when we were round the dining  table?

Man: Dinner? Oh... I see.

Woman: You forgot already?

Man: Let's talk later. I love you.

Woman: Suspension always, okay, fine. No worries.

We can see, in some situations men prolong matters without them realizing it, something that's supposed to be dealt with then and there, but keep postponing it and going around in circles; and women for whom they are, want explanations and reasons for 'Yes' and the sudden 'No'. He never gave any reason for changing his mind, his woman decided to overlook it for peace sake.

I believe any reasonable woman wants love, peace; and also have respect to serve and listen to her man, while men are often in a rush to answer or explain things. There should be no reason postponing simple things. Discuss it once and let peace reign.

Men, don't have bad intentions, just that they don't pay attention, but they should understand that attention and good communication are very important to have a peaceful healthy relationship.

Men are bad listeners, so women must repeat themselves over and over again to be heard. This is the reason why it "seems" women talk more. I will disagree with the fact that women talk more, because in actual fact it all depends on individuals and circumstances in relation to what a woman does, whom she lives with, which type of life she lives and many other situations and circumstances. I have seen men talk restlessly, so it comes down to each individual's way of life.

I believe most women desire attention and explanations when necessary, not that they generally talk too much.


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