Life is a college, we all learn each day, therefore we need to learn, know and understand who is who in our life and for what purpose each individual is there for.
Some are just playmates, this set has nothing to offer than to play and chat irrelevant chats with you, they are time wasters (TW), be careful, don't waste your precious time with them. They only want to have-fun and while away the time, you do not really mean anything to them; they are on an adventure most times. Their attention is on someone else... so make the chats brief or cut if off totally if need be.
Some plan the future with you, and want to see you grow, they pray for you even without you knowing it... they are there to walk the journey with you, even when it's not convenient for them. You need to adore this set of people in your life; draw them closer and respect them, because they want to see you succeed; they are your true friends. These friends could be your family, parent, child, sibling, lover, spouse, even might be a casual friend you met on social media.
They're happy for you because they have happy life themselves. Even, the ones that are not 100% happy for one reason or the other, they derive joy in seeing you doing good, and surely happiness goes to them. Identify with them and make them proud and be a blessing to them. Life is about give and take, and more importantly being real to oneself.
Let's be useful to each other in our journey of life, which we don't know when it will end. May we walk with the right people in our journey.
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