We are all associates, collaborators and we are in acceptance of it; why? Because humans, especially men are polygamous by nature. So, let's face it and stop being hypocrites. Search your heart if you have never been part of infidelity in one way or the other, if you have not done it yourself; sure you have supported someone in doing it.
I was discussing with a male friend the other day; I asked him, 'why do you cheat and why can't you be open with it and tell your wife?'. He answered, 'cheating is sweet, just the fact of hiding to do it makes it a bundle of fun for me'. I didn't know what to say, I smiled... after a second, I responded, "For me, I prefer people to be open and honest with it, let everyone involved know and there will be no much to lie about and no hide and seek game". He sees me as a person from another 'world'.
Honestly, I respect polygamists, because they are open with it and everyone in the relationship knows what they are in for. They don't hide under monogamy like the so called monogamist hide under monogamy while having ten women or more out there. There's no how, it's not possible; they will be stressed, they'll lie in doing so, they'll complicate issues and mess others' involved with them up somehow.
Friends, colleagues and family support it, mostly family members support it because of the contact, contract, job opportunity or any other goodies they want from their sister's lover, mistress, or husband to be knowing very well that the man is married. Even some will go to the extent of telling their sisters how to be smart and get things fast before the relationship ends/breaks...Hmm; being men themselves, they know many unfaithful men are not stable minded and they know how to lie their way around when they want to break up with their 'other women', lovers, mistresses, whatever they name it. Most married men are experts in making up stories, grandma stories... Oh Lord of mercy, safe their lying souls... Smiling.
A sister will accept her brother's infidelity just to see the brother happy, it seems to be a sweet game to many. At times some will advice against it, it's a formality, just to say, 'I did advice', should in case the cat is let out of the bag. Some might not truly mean it, they know it's part of 'living'.
Friends and colleagues are not left out in this hanky-panky, they too have their own reasons for supporting and backing infidelity... at times it's a case of, you rub my back, I'll rub yours kind of a thing.
This same family when the table turns around to the side they don't want, then they come up with polygamy is not good. Whatever you do, be true to yourself and before you judge anyone, be sure you're clean and free of the same doing.
Please stop telling people or showing people that you're a monogamist just because you have one woman living with you at home and known to be your only woman. You're a polygamist in as much as you have other women out there. Simple! Don't deceive yourself and stop deceiving people. Lies and deceit may go for twenty years, the truth will always come around to disgrace lies. Some cover up in the name of being 'born again'. That's another topic for another day.
Tell the truth to yourself, live the truth and be free. You're in bondage when you lie to yourself.
I was discussing with a male friend the other day; I asked him, 'why do you cheat and why can't you be open with it and tell your wife?'. He answered, 'cheating is sweet, just the fact of hiding to do it makes it a bundle of fun for me'. I didn't know what to say, I smiled... after a second, I responded, "For me, I prefer people to be open and honest with it, let everyone involved know and there will be no much to lie about and no hide and seek game". He sees me as a person from another 'world'.
Honestly, I respect polygamists, because they are open with it and everyone in the relationship knows what they are in for. They don't hide under monogamy like the so called monogamist hide under monogamy while having ten women or more out there. There's no how, it's not possible; they will be stressed, they'll lie in doing so, they'll complicate issues and mess others' involved with them up somehow.
Friends, colleagues and family support it, mostly family members support it because of the contact, contract, job opportunity or any other goodies they want from their sister's lover, mistress, or husband to be knowing very well that the man is married. Even some will go to the extent of telling their sisters how to be smart and get things fast before the relationship ends/breaks...Hmm; being men themselves, they know many unfaithful men are not stable minded and they know how to lie their way around when they want to break up with their 'other women', lovers, mistresses, whatever they name it. Most married men are experts in making up stories, grandma stories... Oh Lord of mercy, safe their lying souls... Smiling.
A sister will accept her brother's infidelity just to see the brother happy, it seems to be a sweet game to many. At times some will advice against it, it's a formality, just to say, 'I did advice', should in case the cat is let out of the bag. Some might not truly mean it, they know it's part of 'living'.
Friends and colleagues are not left out in this hanky-panky, they too have their own reasons for supporting and backing infidelity... at times it's a case of, you rub my back, I'll rub yours kind of a thing.
This same family when the table turns around to the side they don't want, then they come up with polygamy is not good. Whatever you do, be true to yourself and before you judge anyone, be sure you're clean and free of the same doing.
Please stop telling people or showing people that you're a monogamist just because you have one woman living with you at home and known to be your only woman. You're a polygamist in as much as you have other women out there. Simple! Don't deceive yourself and stop deceiving people. Lies and deceit may go for twenty years, the truth will always come around to disgrace lies. Some cover up in the name of being 'born again'. That's another topic for another day.
Tell the truth to yourself, live the truth and be free. You're in bondage when you lie to yourself.
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