I named master/mistress relationship as 'pay as you go' relationship, while 'contract relationship' is that of a husband/wife. Both have their pluses and minuses; but many still prefer to be a wife than a mistress. Okay, a few mistresses might love being mistresses if they are not a 'full time' mistress. A full time mistress is, one that is not married and does not have any other master. A 'part-time mistress' is a married woman who's secretly a mistress to another married man or a mistress to more than one master.... A part-time mistress is an act of indecency.
There is nothing bad in being a mistress, but it's better to stop one relationship before going into another, and it's very wrong for a wife to be a mistress to another man, while still married to her husband. It's indecency. One may have close pals, but sex, especially intercourse must not be involved, especially for a woman. Well, each individual on a different mission and journey, whichever way one must be decent, no one is perfect, but we can get close to perfection.
As I was saying before, many ladies prefer to be a wife because:
1. A mistress duty can be terminated at any time because in many cases, no contract, no solid agreement. It's only responsible man with good heart do 'settle' a mistress when the relationship ends. Okay, in some cases a mistress may be richer than the master. That's another topic for another day.
2. No 100% stability, so, nothing is for sure. An appointment with a mistress may be cancelled at the last minute because of the wife. For instance, a master promised to be with his mistress in Tokyo, at the last minute the wife forced her way to go with him. Appointment and arrangement of more than a month ruined by the 'madam'. Since there is no open arrangement and agreement, she either takes it or pull out.
3. No 'retirement benefit': A mistress doesn't have nothing to hold on to when the relationship terminates. It's one of the reasons why many mistresses don't want to be too confident with fake promises, they want it now or find a way out of the relations. It could be a wasted time and efforts holding on to fake promises.
4. Tomorrow is not promised, not guaranteed, plus many men are known to be 'storytellers' and lies for adventurous reasons.
If each moment is enjoyed and happy with it, then cool; they say, it's not about the destination but the journey. But, why the waste of time? Just say the truth, give your mistress the choice to choose between staying as a mistress or the prospect of being a wife or not going for the relationship at all.
In some situations mistress turns into a wife, that is, if she's a full time mistress and nothing to hide from both sides. Many mistresses and even wives live separate from their masters/husbands, even in far away countries, distance is not a barrier to a good relationship where there's faithfulness, honesty and respect. Love is of the heart.
A 'lucky' wife has benefits for services rendered and not rendered just because of the contract between the man and the woman. The downside is rules, rules and rules... Many can manage the rules and try to be submissive, while they are still the one controlling the affairs 'somehow'. There's always a way around it for the clever ones, not always an easy task though. Like they say, 'you can't have your cake and eat it too'. That's just the way it is.
All situations are different depending on each individual and those involved in the relationship. Whichever way, know that, it's a waste of time and emotions being with a person with a spouse at home, unless you are another woman/wife/common-law wife with some sort of contract, living elsewhere.
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