Sex and Spirituality II

The urge for having sex when entering spiritual realm is intense. Only bold and honest spiritual leaders will talk freely about sex and the urge in spiritual realm.

Merry Christmas

May the joy of the season abide with us.

Light and Love.

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!

The Traffic Lights: The journey

The Journey of Life could be compared to the Traffic Lights; Yellow (Amber), Red, Green.

Never rush when you see the Amber trying/wanting to jump/beat the Red.

Stay cool and calm behind the Red, It's the time for preparation, time to recharge your battery and get your energy back. Move on when you see the Green light, it's the right time for your breakthrough.

I don't jump the Red light anymore because it's the time for me to take a short break, reflect and get myself together for bigger deals.

- Sola Opesan Brown.

If Anyone Should Ever Write My Life Story: You'll Be There

I've had my share of life's ups and downs

But fate's been kind, the downs have been few

I guess you could say that I've been lucky

Well, I guess you could say that it's all because of you

If anyone should ever write my life story

For whatever reason there might be

Oh, you'll be there between each line of pain and glory

Cause you're the best thing that ever happened to me

Ah, you're the best thing that ever happened to me

Oh, there have been times when times were hard

But always somehow I made it, I made it through

Cause for every moment that I've spent hurting

There was a moment that I spent, ah, just loving you

If anyone should ever write my life story

For whatever reason there might be

Oh, you'll be there between each line of pain and glory

Cause you're the best thing that ever happened to me

Ah, you're the best thing that ever happened to me

I know, you're the best thing, oh, that ever happened to me

- Gladys Knight

The Wind of Change Are Always Blowing: To All The Men I Have Loved Before

To all the men I've loved before

Who traveled in and out my door

I'm glad they came along

I dedicate this song

To all the men I've loved before

To all the men I once caressed

And may I say, I've held the best

For helping me to grow,

I owe a lot, I know

To all the men I've loved before

Avoid That Circumstance Where There Is No Second Chance

Sometimes late at night
I lie awake and watch her sleeping
She's lost in peaceful dreams
So, I turn out the lights and lay there in the dark

And a thought crosses my mind
If I never wake in the morning
Would she ever doubt
The way I feel about her in my heart

If tomorrow never comes
Will she know how much I loved her?
Did I try in every way
To show her every day
That she's my only one?

Miss Black Europe International Scholarship Pageant Update: An End of a Department

After dealing in beauty, fashion, beauty pageant and charity for eleven years and seventeen years respectively; we've decided to continue with our main activities, we've incorporated new ones and stopped a couple for worthy reasons.

Throughout these meaningful years we’ve been coaching and serving our community in love and light by impacting people in their professional life and general wellbeing - giving them the key to the door of success by MBE (Mentoring, branding and empowering).

* We shall continue with the award ceremony - showcasing and honouring those that are doing their best in giving back to humanity. ✅

* We shall continue with charity work. ✅

* We shall continue with fashion and beauty display, when need be. ✅

* We have decided to stop the beauty pageant ❌ but, we shall continue to give counsel to those who need it. It's time to say goodbye to beauty contest - our passion remains, as our love for those who are still in the field will continue.

* The activities we incorporated will bring light, fulfilment, peace and harmony into our lives, individually and collectively - knowing and believing that we will always impact humanity positively.

We thank everyone that has been part of our success story, without you there's no us. 🙌

https://www.missblackeurope.com
- MBE Team.

Spirituality: Check What You Consume

It's not everything is good for your consumption.

- →Filter what you read.

- →Filter what you listen to.

- →Filter what you watch.

- →Filter whom you have sex with.

- →Filter what you eat.

- →Filter and control your thoughts.

- →Filter whom you discuss with and what you discuss with them. 

- →Don't engage in unproductive and unhealthy discussions. It might affect your being.

- →Don't allow/accept anyone to speak negative words into your life. Say 'NO' to such. At times, they just want you to hear it, for it to be evident.

- →Associate with things and people that will make you smile and make you appreciate that life is worth living.
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Be pure at heart and smile.🙌

The Reason Politicians See The Need For Bullyboys

'You don't know me, I don't know you, you don't know what my eyes have seen', almost all leaders have this phrase at the back of their mind. political leaders, traditional leaders, religious leaders, influential people and the famous ones around the world do have protectors; it's essential, overdoing it is what is not right.

You Can't Know Anyone In Totality

As much as we have bad people out there, there are some good people out there too, sure.  Either good or bad, they only show the part they want you to know, or relate with you within the relationship category you are with them, so you can't know anyone in totality.

Order Yours Now: The Book 'Terrain of Power'

           

That joy of holding one's own book and saying -

'I bring you good tidings.'

Order yours now, It will guide you in your journey of life.

GO ON THE LINK BELOW TO ORDER:

http://www.missblackeurope.com/BOOK.php

Celebrating An Icon's Birthday: Prof. Olu Aina

"Happy Birthday"

You know it doesn't make much sense
There ought to be a law against
Anyone who takes offense
At a day in your celebration
Cause we all know in our minds
That there ought to be a time
That we can set aside
To show just how much we love you
And I'm sure you would agree
It couldn't fit more perfectly
Than to have a world party on the day you came to be

Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday.

  - Stevie Wonder

We love you so much and we appreciate your contributions to the community. Keep it up, don't stop. I'm glad I know you.

-Sola Opesan Brown

Prof. Olu Aina 

Hon. Member ICPC 2011-2015

Don't Underestimate Them: There Are Still Women Of Honour Out There.

1. Believe it, it's not all women will sleep with you because you want to sponsor their event or any other project.

2. Not all will sleep with you because you are in power (position of authority and influence).

3. Trust me, not all will sleep with you because of empty promises.

4. Be assured that not all will sleep with you because you're a royalty.

5. Not all will sleep with you because you are a lawmaker or with a prestigious appointment. 

Indecency: Gradual Disappearance Of Culture, Dignity, Respect And Honesty

I get so worried seeing the gradual disappearance of what we stand for as humans. All sorts of disrespect, lies, untrue news, untrue information, defamation of character, rascality, heartlessness, unprofessionalism, cruelty, falsehood and most especially disrespect for elders and authority. I keep wondering; what got us here, what went wrong.

We say the leaders failed the system; what about the youths not getting things right? They copy and follow the steps of the leaders that they claimed failed the system. Like some leaders failed, also some youths are failing too.  What about those playing so cheap just for crumbs, selling their future and future of others and the generations yet unborn?

Never Dreamed That He Would Be Gone From Me: How I'd Love To Dance With My Father Again.

Back when I was a child

Before life removed all the innocence

My father would lift me high

And dance with my mother and me

And then

Spin me around 'till I fell asleep

Then up the stairs he would carry me

And I knew for sure

I was loved

If I could get another chance

Another walk

Another dance with him

I'd play a song that would never ever end

How I'd love love love

To dance with my father again

When I and my mother

Would disagree

To get my way I would run

From her to him

He'd make me laugh just to comfort me

yeah yeah

Then finally make me do

Just what my mama said

Later that night when I was asleep

He left a dollar under my sheet

Never dreamed that he

Would be gone from me

If I could steal one final glance

One final step

One final dance with him

I'd play…

DEDICATED TO MY FATHER DR. REV. DANIEL ADEPOJU OPESAN

May your soul find rest daddy. (13/05/1934 - 04/09/2018)

-  Luther  Vandross (Dance With My Father Again)

                   

I Accept Everyone: Senator Iyiola Omisore

"I do not have anything against anyone, I'm not at war with no one, I love everyone, and I know I'm loved by so many; I can feel and see it. I do appreciate their love and support for me.

I Have Learnt... We Are All Fools

I have learnt, to keep quiet than to lie (even when people attempt to encourage me to lie).

I have learnt, not to promise, until I'm ready and sure (Only unserious and in some cases also dubious people promise without keeping to it).

I have learnt, that people break promises and turned to be defensive unnecessarily; well, there are still good and noble people out there.

Pay As You Go Relationship Vs Contract Relationship.

I named master/mistress relationship as 'pay as you go' relationship, while 'contract relationship' is that of a husband/wife. Both have their pluses and minuses; but many still prefer to be a wife than a mistress. Okay, a few mistresses might love being mistresses if they are not a 'full time' mistress. A full time mistress is, one that is not married and does not have any other master. A 'part-time mistress' is a married woman who's secretly a mistress to another married man or a mistress to more than one master.... A part-time mistress is an act of indecency.

We Are All Accomplices To Infidelity: Let's Face it!

Infidelity is what many accept, but deny the truth. Many accept it because they love their family that's cheating, or love the one their family is cheating with; it doesn't necessary  mean they hate the one that's been cheated on, and many at times, it could be to spite the one that is cheated on, for one reason or the other. It seems cheating is a norm, which is enjoyed by many, but can't face the truth. It's part of human existence, I believe.

We are all associates, collaborators and we are in acceptance of it; why? Because humans, especially men are polygamous by nature. So, let's face it and stop being hypocrites. Search your heart if you have never been part of infidelity in one way or the other, if  you have not done it yourself; sure you have supported someone in doing it.

JUNE 30: Sola Opesan Brown On Her Birthday Says, "I Thought I Had It All"

I have gone through so many stages that helped me to be who I am today. When I was growing up, somehow I only relate with people from rich homes and or from well educated background. I was taught to love, to respect, to be kind to everyone and to fear no one. Not relating closely to some people didn't stop me from assisting when need be. I was a bit mouthy (mouthy of a decent teenager), not in a negative or rude way, but in a way to defend myself when necessary.  In my journey around the world having lived in five countries and still counting, moving around like a sweet gypsy; I guess I got the travelling 'bug' (smiles) from my parents who left Nigeria for the UK before the mid 60s to study and to live there, when travelling was of a good quality and class. I love travelling, it relaxes and refreshes me, it gives me the opportunity to learn cultures and languages. And also, to learn to respect each individual, we don't have to like anyone but respecting them is essential.

In my travelling to different parts of the world, I met with all sorts of people, people that have been good to me and those I have been good to and helped. Then, I know that, it's no one's fault not to be from a rich home or a well educated family... Life comes to people in different forms, we can't choose the 'vehicle' (parents) that brought us to this world, but we can choose and decide what we want to be, even at that, things do happen in life. We do not have control over some certain things in life.

I have been so blessed with wonderful people around me, I learnt some good lessons and some difficult ones. We shouldn't measure prosperity with just material things, but I'll say something... at a point, I thought I had it all, I bought two houses in Spain within one year, not just ordinary houses... the second one was a three-floor chalet in a very highly privileged zone, a zone not just for anyone, cars, brand new car straight from the factory, plus other investment/property in another country and many other goodies. I'm always very innovative and creative, just to make things happen somehow and anyhow positively.... Sola Opesan Brown you see is not just into events, media, entertainment, branding, interpreting and charity; I'm paralegal too, having worked in the court for a good while. Also, into property business, as a bank mortgage adviser and property developer's agent; owned a beauty shop, sold shoes and other items to do with beauty and fashion.

A time came, things slowed down somehow, I wasn't happy; but it was a journey that connects me to the real person that I really want to be. What slowed me down and didn't make me happy connected me to my happiness. I never believed in predestiny, but, what happened got me to believe in it. I'm happy to have seen many phases in my journey of life, everything helped in making me a better and happier person. It's not about how many times we fall in the journey of life, but how strong we are in standing up after falling and to continue firmly with determination of believing in one's self. Also, It's when we fall we tend to know the real strength in us, and the type of people around us.

Whatever we do, we must be pure at heart, hurt no one, wish no one evil and our paths will be smooth. One may come across difficulties, but, will surely overcome it when your heart is pure.

I'm very humble, the bit I wrote above is not to brag, actually, nothing to brag about; but to appreciate both Mother Nature and God for keeping me going in my journey of life, also a bit of flashback is always good, to guide us to do better and correct what needs to be corrected.

I say, thank you to my friends, family, fans, followers, loved ones; with your love, my love for humanity and by God's grace, Sola Opesan Brown is still standing.

Thank you for having my back.

Thank you for having my back