Awe-Inspiring Moment With Dr. Abel Ujiya Ademu (Bursar, Kogi State University)

Awe-inspiring moment with one of the powerful, influential and kind-hearted leaders that make great things happen quietly but hardly heard about. I'm very glad that my path crossed that of a worthy, humble and compassionate leader, Dr. Abel Ujiya Ademu, the Bursar of Kogi State University and President of Bursar Associations of Polytechnic, Monotechnic & College of Technology of Nigeria. 

Here is a brief interview with the man with a heart of gold:

Don't Accept Disrespect

Just know is not about you, is about the ill behaved individual. It has nothing to do with you; be you, be sure you are doing things right. Respect others and make sure you are respected in return.

Monogamy With Hidden Agendas

Why do we deceive ourselves? Let's come straight and be frank with our inner selves. It's very difficult for a lot of people, especially men, to strictly practice monogamy. Human nature says it all, also many religions, cultures and society permit it because of one reason or the other. This is cool and acceptable by so many with deep understanding from the beginning or at a point when things change. The ones that can bear it will hold on to it, the ones that cannot will leave. It's a matter of choice, no one should force anyone to be part of  any lifestyle they do not want to be part of. One thing for sure, a lot do stay in a polygamous relationship with deep understanding and agreement.

Why You Mustn't Use Chat Abbreviations

It's advisable not to use chat abbreviations because most people do not have the time for the interpretation of chat abbreviations, more so, there are no longer any stated rules; each individual comes up with own chat abbreviation style. For a lot, it's a waste of time guessing what your chat abbreviation means, it could be very confusing too.

I Finally Met The Media Icon, Prince Bisi Olatilo

It was a great pleasure to meet with the Media Icon. A humble and tranquil person I saw when I met him. The first time I heard about this great man was about four years ago when my good friend and brother, Prince Benson Olaoluwa mentioned him to me, and since then, it has been on my mind to see this hard working and successful man that has impacted so many people and homes through his professionalism and love for what he does. If just for one minute it will be fine with me, I said to myself; since I know he's a very busy person, and I have got places to go too. A brief meeting it was, but as for me, it's well worth it; well satisfied with the man I met.

My Curiousity: Apostle Suleiman and Stephanie Otobo's Adventure Got Me To Definite Destiny

For a few weeks I have been so curious and wondering how nice will the acclaimed hotel they both stayed will look like; It must be prestigiously beautiful, I said to myself. With the calibre of the man in question it must be, I kept saying to myself. The description of Miss Otobo of the hotel was a street after the petrol station next door to the Ikeja Airport Hotel. The hotel that I saw on the internet that goes with the description was Definite Destiny Hotels Ltd, and I guess the name of the hotel was mentioned online at a point.

I Have Gotten Myself A 'Godfather' In Prof. Olu Aina (Hon. Member ICPC 2011-2015)

Prof Olu Aina & Sola Opesan Brown

Prof. Olu Aina was a Hon. member of the Independent Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Commission. He's from Otan-Ayagbaju in the welcoming State of Osun. He was born over seven decades ago. He lived and studied in different parts of the world where he both studied and worked. Western Michigan University, Kalamazoo, USA, Northern Michigan University, USA, Marquette, USA University of North Dakota, Grand Forks, USA, Manchester Business School, University of Manchester, UK, and International Centre for Technical Education, Huddersfield University, UK where he obtained B.Sc and Ph.D respectively. He started his higher education at the Polytechnic of  Ibadan

Prof. Olu Aina

He worked as a teacher both at home and abroad, before he was appointed as a member of ICPC  he was a lecturer at Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria. Also, he's a publisher and a writer. He has presented 87 seminars and conference papers and also supervised almost 45 thesis ranging from Masters to Doctorate level.

I'm glad I came across Prof and his wonderful friend, Chief Ayo Akinyemi. They are sociable, disciplined and well kept respectable elderly men. They are both proud citizens of Osun State, every second they talk about Osun State, "we are from Osun State", they proudly say. I'm proud of  them.

A friend to Prof, Prof, Sola, another friend & Chief Ayo Akinyemi

Number Ten: My 'Boss-Friend' (Hon. Dayo Saka Fafunmi, Lagos State House of Assembly) And I

Hon. Fafunmi & Sola Opesan Brown

Ten represents beginning of new lessons in cycles of knowledge, and great responsibility rests on the ten in individual leadership quality.

Number ten was said to be the holiest of numbers according to the Pythagoreans; they took their oaths by number ten.

I Appreciate Your Labour of Love

"I appreciate your labour of love; God bless you richly". When I received this message from my man, I responded with a "Thanks". It was a spontaneous response, I was glad but the real and deep meaning of it didn't dawn on me until the following day.

Politicians Are Like Prostitutes: Hon. Olanrewaju Ibrahim Layode alias OIL '88' (Lagos State House of Assembly)

After a sightseeing to Badagry; we talked about the possibility of Badagry being a good point of attraction and tourism, especially when the road expansion is completed. Badagry is strategically located; a promising community, with nice beach, warm people and also a borderline with Benin Republic. From Badagry we travelled down to Ikeja, we decided to stop by at the office of Hon.  Olanrewaju Ibrahim Layode alias OIL 88, represents Badagry Constituency 1 at the Lagos State House of Assembly since 2007.

Let Them Be Able To Close The Chapter And Move On

When you don't want to stay, don't give mixed messages, don't let them believe they still have a chance.

Let them be able to close the chapter and move on, there's no need to waste their time and finally do not leave them with a total heartbreak. Be fair, just and kind to others.

We live just once, let's make it a good living.

A Clergyman Will Not Lose Anointing By Sleeping With More Than A Woman.

It's only those that take clergymen as supernatural beings and think they don't have blood and water running through their veins, just  like any other human being will be disappointed and see things differently if  a clergyman sleeps with another woman other than his wife. We are all humans!

We shouldn't get it twisted, if and when a clergyman sleeps with other women other than his wife or have multiple partners doesn't mean he's not blessed spiritually, nor his 'anointing' will leave him. No! The anointing is there, unless he sleeps with a woman with demonic spirits. Even at that, if he's very strong spiritually, he will subdue the evil spirit.

It Takes Two To Keep A Relationship Together

A relationship is over when one or both of the parties are no longer committed. Honesty is essential, it's the number one ingredient to keep a relationship together. You must be honest with your partner and yourself. There should be no excuses; it must be about what you feel and not what people will think. Both of you have to want it. It takes two to be in a relationship and it takes two to keep it together.

Don't Turn Anyone To a Subhuman!

If you cannot make them, don't break them. It takes a whole lot to build what you are trying to break. Even for those that haven't been able to build a profile for themselves, give them the chance, the opportunity to do so; without being crushed in the journey of life.

Alhaji Adams Yinka Nageri's 50th Birthday Ceremony In Style

It's always a peaceful feeling when you come across someone that you can rely on as a brother and a friend even if you don't get to see nor communicate; maybe just once in a blue moon. But there's always a reminder that you have someone somewhere. Many at times is because the person has proved themselves trustworthy and dependable. 

My Journey To Koton-Karfe Prison (Kogi State)

Correction Officers, Sola Opesan Brown & daughter, Natural

I spent the last few days of the year 2016 and the first few days of the year 2017 at home. The serenity of  the place, especially the calmness and the inner peace in me, the feeling that I'm home gives me joy. Not only the joy of the smell of the air, the leaves, the sky, the soil, the people, everything altogether gives joy and calmness.

"It Doesn't Get Into My Head"- An Insight Into Governor Yahaya Bello of Kogi State's Lifestyle

His Excellency Alhaji Yahaya Bello is the Executive Governor of Kogi State of Nigeria. He's an experienced Accountant; an alumni of Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria. A big time businessman, humanitarian and politician who saintly became a state governor. He's the youngest governor in Nigeria. Here he shares his thoughts and views in this interview.
It seems you are an exciting and relaxed person: I drop my official status sometimes; after all, the position is tenured, it doesn't get into my head.

Monica Swaida Is Not Just a Pretty Face: Let's Watch ESOHE!

http://www.esohemovie.com/

She has 'I don't care type of looks', but that's not true; don't let her face deceive you, she's a lady with a heart of gold.  She cares so much for the oppressed and the less privileged ones and she tries to be a voice for them through her song. She's always giving back to her community in her own ways. She's the president of Jubilee Community Initiatives, an association that was founded for the development and improvement of her old school. She constantly encourages others to be charitable. With her song she talks about the ills in the society, and she finds a way of doing good to correct some of the ills. 

Burning Passion of A Tourism Expert: Dr. Mubo Eniola

Sola Opesan Brown & Dr. Mubo Eniola

It's so interesting when we meet someone that's so passionate about his field and uses all the knowledge and experience he acquired to impact their community, and also give professional advice to make their community great.

Seems Nigerians Are Naturally Patient People

Can you imagine people standing in a very hot sun for an hour or more just to withdraw some money? All very calm about it; waiting religiously and patiently. Even you'll see old friends and family meeting there and you'll see them chatting and well relaxed. Sure they know they have to wait for a while, so they pleasantly entertain themselves with gists.